‘I’ll be a wicked mom if I don’t allow my daughter to date at 15, the pen!s envy age’ – Nigerian gospel singer


All mothers are protective of their children and popular Gospel singer, Kenny Saint Best is no different but with a different twist unlike other African mothers.

According to her, her daughter who turned 15 this year is ripe for dating because that she has attained the “pen!s envy” stage.

Wikipedia defines ‘Penis Envy’ as a stage theorised by Sigmund Freud regarding female psychosexual development, in which young girls experience anxiety upon realisation that they do not have a pen!s.

Speaking to Saturday Beats, KSB revealed that she started dating when she was 15 so she would be a wicked mother to deny her child from dating a man at that age.

When I was in the university, I took a course in Philosophy and they taught us that there is a particular age that girls start dating and they call it the age of ‘Penis Envy’.

It is not that the girls are necessarily looking for s3x, it is just a stage in their life whereby they realise that they are pretty and they can be attractive to a guy. For me, once my daughter is 15 years old then it is okay for her to date. It is not that they would be walking around holding hands but it has to be a civil and responsible relationship.

I am not a regular parent, I feel it is okay for a female child to be aware that she is attractive to guys and she should also know that the guy would woo her. That was the age it happened to me and I would be a wicked mother to expect that at the age of 15, my daughter would not have someone wooing her or telling her the usual lies guys tell ladies.

So for my boy, if he is 17 and I notice that he is always talking to someone on the phone and always smiling, it is okay. It does not mean that they are going to be practising s3x; it just means that they are understanding matters of the heart and love apart from the love they get from their parents.


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